The change is almost over night; one day you have an adoring young child who would do anything for you to make you happy and the next BAM! You’re faced with a moody, angry teen who slouches around the house and argues back at you when you ask them to do a chore.
Now, I am quite lucky that most of these signs I only had when my son went into secondary school and, to be fair, they didn’t last for long (maybe a year or so). I think it took me falling ill for him to shake his butt and get a grip with his emotions and feelings. Some of the signs are still happening and, well, I could be talking about the significant lazy other half too! (but that’s another blog post lol)
We all have our own experiences with our teens – some good, some bad. Here are some that I have experienced with my sons:
- They no longer feel the cold and go out without wearing a coat in the Winter. Wearing a coat is to uncool!
- Teenagers know everything! There is no need to use the internet anymore, just ask your teen. Oh, and they have an answer to everything too (that’s if you can hear them talking through their mumbling)
- There is no need for a cloak cupboard anymore, teens will leave their coat and bags at the front door as soon as they enter. They say it’s easier for them to grab the next day
- They have a better social life than you. As soon as they turn 13 they will be attending anyone and everyone’s party.
- They live in their bedrooms. You will never see them unless there is food on the table and it’s time to eat
- They begin to mumble in a low voice when they are talking to you. You will never make out what they are saying
- You will never get to use your own charger anymore as it will be claimed by them to charge their tablets or phones
- They want every item of clothing to be designer and are no longer happy with Primark or high street clothing
- Their friends are allowed to do EVERYTHING that are not allowed to do and you will constantly hear about a friend who can do what they want
- If they DO pick up their dirty dishes and cutlery and take it to the kitchen, it will not make it into the sink but instead it will be left next to the sink ready for the cleaning fairy to wash them
- You will find dirty, stinky socks all over the house. Say goodbye to pairing them up, you will have odd socks everywhere
- They constantly have their phone next to them, headphones plugged in. Now, I’m pretty sure that they are not even listening to anything it’s just a way for you to not talk to them
- Sleep. They can sleep all day long. It may be because they don’t got to sleep until the early hours as they have spent most of the night on social media
- There is never any food in the house even though you just filled up the cupboards and fridge with food. Either they have just eaten it all or they mean that there are no snacks for them to grab and eat straight away
- Say goodbye to that expensive hair shampoo or body lotion that you save for special occasions as it will get used almost immediately. Oh, and your bathroom will have a cloud of smoke in their from all of the deodorant that was sprayed.
Don’t worry, the teen years don’t last for long, You will soon have that loving little child who once ran from their classroom door straight into your arms because they were thrilled to see you. They no longer fit onto your lap for a cuddle and you may have to stand on a stool to hold them in your arms again but their loving and caring side soon comes back.
Do you have any signs to share?
We have tons of mini Lego figure characters all over the house. There isn’t a day that goes by where I am going round the house picking up the damn little blighter’s from the floor in the bid to save my precious little tootsies from stepping on them during the night.
My middle boy absolutely loves Lego and has been recently collecting the Harry Potter versions. He doesn’t have the full set yet as he is desperately
wasting his money trying his best to get just two of them; Tina Goldstein and Percival Graves.
We are rapidly running out of sides to display his Lego sets and characters on. A few years ago I did make a hanging storage for his Lego mini figures but that is now full. Cabinets and shelves in his room are full to the brim too. So, for Christmas I made him a special little gift, A Lego mini-figure frame.
It was easy to make and didn’t take long at all. I took a look online before making one and saw that companies were charging a small fortune for the frames. I had all of the craft things in my cupboard, all i needed to do was put it all together.
To make the storage frame you will need:
- A box frame deep enough to fit in the characters. The size depends on how many figures you want to put on show. I used a 7″x 7″
- Strong glue or a glue gun
- Ruler and a pencil
- Plain paper for the background
- Mini Lego display bases
- Lettered wooden tiles
Cut a piece of paper down to fit on the back of the frame. You can decorate this any way that you please. I did a simple picture of Hogwarts.
Make marks where you want the bases for the figures to be and measure out equal distances between them.
Once all the marks are on the background, stick it down into the frame
Using strong glue or a glue gun, stick down the mini figure base plates. I used two for each one, just to ensure that it was securely stuck to the background
All you have to do now is personalise it with a name using the wooden tiles. The tiles I used had a self adhesive dot on the back so it was easy to stick on the frame.
The frame is now ready to place the mini figures in
It really is such a cute way to display your favourite Lego Mini Figures and makes a brilliant gift to a huge Lego fan. I loved how it turned out and am already thinking about doing something similar on a larger scale for him.
Roughly half of the world’s population of grey seals are found around Britain.
Grey seals come ashore to breed – the breeding site is known as a rookery. The females arrive at the rookery and will usually give birth a day later. They feed their pups for the first 3 weeks. After the pup is weaned, the mother will leave. Over the next few weeks the pup will moult its soft white coat for a mottled waterproof one. Within 3 weeks the pup will have its adult fur and when it starts to feel hunger it will make its way to the sea where it will learn to swim and to feed for itself.
We visited a rookery on the beach between Winterton and Horsey Gap in Norfolk.
We arrived at Winterton and walked along the sand dunes for about 20 minutes until we found a good spot to watch the seals.
The seals had made their way up from the sand onto the grassy dunes and were sleeping in between them.
It was such a beautiful sight to see and witness but also sad to see that there were a few pups that had not made it past the first few weeks of their lives. This may have been because the Cow (Mum) had been disturbed and she abandoned her pup to get away.
We sat and watched in awe at the beauty surrounding us.
We listened to the waves crashing against the shore line and to the screaming sound of the Cow and pup communicating with each other.
You are advised to keep a safe distance from the seal as they can have nasty bite but it is hard to see them when walking with in the dunes. We stumbled across a few who were sleeping and only noticed them at the last minute.
When they move they can move pretty fast.
They are such beautiful creatures, with cute little faces. they almost remind me of fat dogs with no legs.
After over an hour of walking along the beach we made our way back to the car. Winterton is a popular destination for dog walkers because of the long sandy stretch of beach. We visited the same beach in the summer and stayed close by at Hermanus Holiday Site, read about it here
These hot chocolate stirrers are ideal to give away as a festive treat or even just to enjoy at home in front of the TV.
They are super easy to make and cheaper than buying from the shops. I made up a batch of 30 for the children at school and they didn’t take long to make at all. You can made endless variations too, to suit any taste
- Dark chocolate
- A mix of white and milk chocolate
- Skip the marshmallows
- Add in edible glitter or honeycomb
They make the creamiest and smoothest hot chocolate with added little surprise of mini marshmallows inside that make an appearance once the chocolate has melted in the hot milk.
- Chocolate (i used a large bar of galaxy, but you can use whatever you want)
- Marshmallows – mini or big
- Stirrers, lolly sticks or spoons
- Square shaped silicone molds or even small plastic yoghurt pots
- Cocoa powder to sprinkle
- Chocolate dazzles to decorate
- Melt your chosen chocolate in the microwave or in a glass bowl over a pan of hot water
- Sprinkle cocoa powder into the molds
- Place a spoonful of melted chocolate into the base of your mold
- Add in some marshmallows
- Top with another spoonful of chocolate
- Place the stick into the middle of the chocolate in the mold
- Top with dazzles or any cake decorations
- Place into the freezer for about 30 minutes to set
- Remove from molds gently
- Wrap in cellophane and store in the fridge
You can also stick your stick into a larger marshmallow and then place that into the mould and pour in the chocolate.
This is my son stirring his chocolate on a stick making his hot chocolate (excuse the music playing in the background)
Looking for the right type of gift for your friends, family or work colleagues?
Take a look at paladone. They stock a wide range of products to suit all, young and old and at stocking prices. When looking for presents to place in stockings you don’t want to spend too much, but you want to make sure that what you do buy is good quality. At Paladone you won’t find typical gifts but quirky and fun ones instead.
Batman Egg Cup and Toast Cutter
Turn breakfast into an adventure with this egg cup set. Great for encouraging little future superheroes into eating breakfast by making it fun. This set is super cute and just the right gift for a any comic book fan. There will be no more boring square shaped toast with this set
What’s in the box?
- 1 Batman Egg Cup
- 1 Spoon
- 1 Batman Logo Toast Cutter
Fantastic Beasts Niffler Trinket Dish 3D
Nifflers are always nabbing shiny and glittery things. This cute little Niffler won’t need to burrow down deep into the earth looking for treasure as he will be keeping your jewellery safe in his dish ready for when you want to wear it. The trinket dish is a perfect gift for any wizarding fan. I think that it would make a lovely addition to any bedroom side with the added bonus of putting your jewellery somewhere safe.
My son loves Fantastic Beasts so he would be over the moon to receive this, even if it is a trinket dish, it would take pride of place on his desk as an ornament.
Smartphone Light Graffiti
Channel your inner artist with this cool pocket size gadget Smartphone Light Graffiti. With the use of a downloadable smartphone app + your phone’s camera, the Smartphone Light Graffiti allows you to take incredibly long exposure pictures! Create amazing light paintings in the air with the small aerosol can. The aerosol with a difference as this one will not spray out paint but light instead.
Change the exposure on your smartphone camera to long, turn your light off and your ready to create some arty pictures. With a click you turn it on and with a double click you can change the colour from white to red, green, blue, yellow, green or turquoise.
How cool is that?
I can see this being a fun little gadget for the boys to play with on Christmas Day.
We was sent these items for the purpose of this post.
Looking for a healthier take on millionaire bites?
These delicious little gooey pieces of deliciousness are made from raw ingredients and I promise you that you won’t want to go back once you’ve tasted these. With a smooth cashew base and a gooey date middle, topped with a rich dark chocolate, it’s like tasting raw gold.
These little treats really are just pure delight! They have everything you want from a sweet treat.
Thanks to them being made with all natural, whole ingredients such as nuts, dates and coconut oil they are also better for you.
This recipe requires no baking, just a lot of blending and freezing
Raw Millionaire Bites
Millionaire bites made from cashew, dates and cacao
- 150 grams whole rolled oats
- 125 grams raw cashews
- 225 grams medjool dates
- organic coconut oil
- 6 tbsp raw cacao powder heaped spoon
- 4 tbsp agave nectar/honey
Ground the oats and cashew together until fine and then mix in 3 tbsp of melted coconut oil.
Combine well until it is paste like.
Place into the bottom of a 9x9 tin/silicone.
Press down firmly and put into the freezer to set
Blend together the dates and 2-3 tbsp of coconut oil until it is a smooth caramel like texture. Add in a couple of tbsp of honey or agave nectar and mix well.
Take the base out of the freezer and add on the date mixture. Press down with the back of a spoon and smooth over.
Place back in the freezer for about half hour
In a saucepan on the hob place the cacao powder, 6 heaped tbsp of coconut oil and 2 tbsp agave or honey.
Melt together until runny. Mix well.
Take the base back out of the freezer and top with the cacao mixture.
Add in some crushed cashew for that added crunch
Place back in the freezer
Once all set and the chocolate has hardened, take out of the freezer and cut into bite size pieces
Store them in the freezer or fridge and eat as and when. They can become quite sticky when left out and will melt quite quickly. Individually wrap them in clinfilm or tin foil
We visited Santa today at our Eastbury Manor House and I must say he is the best Santa I have ever met.
We believe in the magic on Christmas, Do you?